My Story

I’m Byrne (she/her) and I’m so honoured that you’re here. For many years, I spent my life desperately searching for something outside of myself. More than anything, I wanted love and approval, and no matter what I did, I never felt like I was enough. I would throw myself into school, work, or any project where I could “prove my worth.” When the pressure became too great, I would engage in self-destructive patterns.

In 2019, I fell apart. I was experiencing regular panic attacks and I was barely functioning in my high-profile job. I couldn’t fake it anymore – I wasn’t okay. I quit my job and started attending regular sessions with a therapist. I made healing my full-time job. I learned to connect with my inner child and began to unpack what was underneath my workaholism and destructive tendencies. 

I gradually accepted that I am a survivor of incest and sexual violence. I started to appreciate how many of my patterns were responses to the traumatic experiences I’d endured. I continued to seek out modalities that would complement therapy and support me in my healing, such as Reiki, meditation, Somatic Experiencing, and EFT tapping (Emotional Freedom Technique).

When I discovered breathwork, it felt like the missing piece. After years of feeling numb and detached from my body, I started to come home. I was amazed by how conscious, intentional breathing enabled me to feel safe enough to start processing and releasing past memories and emotions that were stored in my body. I began to feel calmer, lighter and more at peace with who I was. I no longer needed to look outside myself for validation.

In 2023, I became a certified trauma-informed breathwork facilitator. It is my greatest honour to support women and non-binary people who have experienced sexual trauma as they heal themselves and reconnect with their bodies through the power of their breath.

My Credentials

Certifications

  • Trauma-Informed Breathwork Facilitator Certification (Pause Breathwork) [2023]

  • Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Certificate (The Embody Lab) [2025]

  • Level III Reiki Master Certification (Manali Haridas) [2019]

Trainings, Courses and Workshops

  • The Path to Healing Trauma Course with Dr. Peter Levine (The Embody Lab) [2024]

  • Trauma-Informed Approaches to Working with Those Impacted by Gender-Based Violence 12-Hour Workshop (Wilfrid Laurier University) [2024]

  • Mental Health First Aid Training (Mental Health Commission of Canada) [2024]

  • SafeTALK Suicide Alertness Training (LivingWorks Education) [2023]

Random Things About Me…

  • I grew up in Northern Ontario and now live in Ottawa, Canada with my amazing partner and our sweet rescue dog, Archie.

  • My childhood hero was the iconic Cruella de Vil. (Let’s be real, I still love her and lost my mind when the Emma Stone version came out!)

  • I believe in magic and love astrology. I’m a Cancer sun, Virgo moon and Scorpio rising.

  • My all-time favourite TV show is Rupaul’s Drag Race.

  • I love being near water and go on at least one canoe trip every summer.

  • My dream is to one day write a memoir, as well as a series of children’s books about self-esteem and self-love.

  • I was named after my great grandfather and my name is pronounced “burn.”

Media

VIDEO: Transforming Trauma: Byrne’s Journey of Healing from Sexual Violence and Incest through Breathwork and Inner Child Work [November 20, 2023]

Join Dakota in this profound interview with Byrne, as she shares her deeply personal journey of healing from incest and sexual violence. Discover how Byrne overcame the challenges of her past through innovative self-healing techniques like breathwork and inner child work. This interview offers hope, guidance, and a path towards recovery for survivors and their supporters.